The most important Love is Self-love

Today is Valentine’s Day the 14th February. The day when we are all supposed to share our love for our partner or the person we secretly admire. But do you love and commit to the most important person in your life? 

I remember at school this being quite a stressful day – who has got one, who hasn’t, who you’ve sent one too, which one you don’t want, who sent it if you did get one – is it reciprocated, will they know it was you who sent the card?

As we grow up we learn that its more of a commercial event – or perhaps we tell ourselves that so it doesn’t affect us if we are not in a relationship.

There is one relationship which is absolutely key to us, One relationship which we have complete control over. One relationship which we should prioritise above all others. One relationship which is usually ignored, left to starve, be empty, run down, uncared for. You’ve guessed it – its the relationship we have with ourselves – self love – self care.

It’s so important for us to look after ourselves, but so many of us neglect ourselves – low priority, low self worth, not worth the time, no time to do anything, can’t do anything, not as good as others, everyone else is better…..

So today on St Valentine’s Day I invite you to find five minutes and refill your jug, meditate, have a hot drink and biscuit, massage your hands, polish your nails…. whatever it is that means you are spending time on just you.

You may like to do the meditation I’ve recorded for you. Or you may want to invest more time in yourself (because you are worth it) and buy the “I love my life” mini-course (half price!)

If you don’t look after yourself, care for your body, mind and emotions – then how can you support the people you love around you? How can you do the things you love to do? Quite simply, you must find time to look after yourself.

Today is the perfect day to make that commitment to yourself – to love yourself – to care for yourself

“I love myself completely, just as I am at this moment”

Don’t put it off until you’ve lost weight, done exercise, found a partner, had a hair cut, got new glasses….. there is only one moment in time that you can effect and that is RIGHT NOW! Tomorrow never comes and yesterday is gone. Today is a present  – a gift to be the best you can be – to simply be you x

Here is a link to a beautiful visualisation meditation:

Would you like a Safe, Sacred Space to Connect & Grow Spiritually – this Women’s Circle could be for You <3

Do you desire to have a better spiritual and angelic connection?

A connection to your intuition, to your guides, your higher self, to Source?

Are you a woman who wants to develop your spiritual knowledge & be connected to a like-minded tribe of females.

Then this Women’s Circle is for you:

– A group for like-minded females wanting to develop spirituality & connect

– A safe, supportive environment to share and grow

– Themes that allow spiritual growth & confidence

– Monthly videos and workbooks and related meditations

– Structured themes and practical/ hands-on work for you to practise in your own time

– Monthly meditations recorded for you

– Monthly healing sessions

– New Moon Zoom Online Connection (virtual group), every new moon

– Secret & Sacred Facebook Group Each month you will work along a theme, with meditations recorded to play and use in your own time.

Plus a book thread where we can share spiritual books, thoughts and comments.

The key is creating a sacred space to be you, to question, share and learn. You can access the spiritual academy as part of your membership

The price for this is £15 a month (or just £111 for 12 months access) 

Testimonials from Members:

AM – I’ve been a member of Romella’s Women’s Group for a while and I love it. Romella guides you through different topics each month and provides you with resources (videos and downloadable pdf’s) to support your learning. She explains each topic clearly and is willing to answer any questions you may have. My favourite so far have been using crystals, aromatherapy and the guided meditations. It’s a great way to learn and the group is very supportive. Thank you

MJ – Went to the woman’s retreat today. Lovely people & a fab session. Can’t wait for the next one!!!! JG – Wow Romella, thank you soooo much, you have given so much time, thank goodness there was only a small group last session. It’s really interesting what appears to keep coming up, and how the colours and cards interconnect…. I know that the universe works in wonderful ways, and has lead me to your group, it’s all stepping stones to a more enlightened life. xxx

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Imbolc – the Celtic celebration of Spring

At the beginning of February is the Celtic celebration of Imbolc – no not the start of the six nations, or the fact our local pop up cake shop has reopened for the Spring – although these are also good reasons to celebrate!

Imbolc falls between the winter and spring solstice, this year its 1st February.

It is linked to the Goddess Brigid, with straw dolls made for her as part of the blessings ceremony.

Its key significance is the beginning of spring. So even though we might have snow and it is zero degrees outside, we welcome in the spring like energy of the new season.

I love to have daffodils in the house at this time of year – either in bulbs or a little vase. Their yellow heads bring happiness and always make me smile.

I am excited by the approach of spring as to me it represents the expansion of my business and my coming out of my bulb and into the world- sharing joy and tools – and being that yellow bud that brings joy to others!

Wishing you a blessed Imbolc x