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I offer a wide range of tools and products designed to move you into a more connected and calm space. By teaching the tools you have access to them whenever you need them – just remember to use them!

My work is like a pyramid with the balance and calm at the bottom and moving up towards expanded spiritual connection. There are elements that span through the whole pyramid – eg self-care, intuition and spiritual connection – but they all work together to bring an enhanced connection to yourself and source. Each level builds on the previous bringing deeper balance, calm and connection

So if you want to bring some balance and calm to your world, then reach out to my social media accounts for freebies, or if you are looking for a deeper spiritual connection I have some amazing tools and circles for you to join too <3
As a published author I have a range of books as the next step, online courses and spiritual women’s circle online and in Shropshire <3 and VIP 1-2-1 client work

For more information /romella101 or email me at

Book Club – “Ask and it is Given” Esther Hicks with Romella 050620

Join me today for book club – looking at “Ask and it is Given” by Esther Hicks and Abraham.

Sharing some tools from the book to boost your vibration and manifesting. Plus a video explaining the Emotional Guidance System (with resources from The Balance Procedure) and info on some of the processes outlined in the book.

There are 22 processes outlined in this book to expand your being and vibration, to enhance your emotional frequency. Each works well in a certain range of emotional state.

Here are a few of the processes:

  • Rampage of Appreciation – look around you and notice the things that please you and bring you pleasure. Focus your attention on this object and feel into the emotion of appreciation – how beautiful or functional or timesaving it is. Allow your positive feelings to expand as you increase your attention.
  • Prosperity Process. Take a notebook or similar and create a bank spreadsheet with a drposit column and expenditure colomn. Make the latter larger. Each day you add £1000 to the deposit and each day you spend it in the expenditure column. Each day it increases so day 2 is £2000, day 3 £3000 day 4 £4000 etc. The idea is to have fun spending the money and researching at what you would spend. Feeling into the energy of prosperity and gratitude. The idea is to spend it each day, but you can save a few days for a larger item – or wait for that day to come around!

Law of Attraction Book Club 220520

Join me at 10am for the book club on all things law of attraction and manifesting.
Who’s your go-to authority, author or person you follow?
Tricks that work for you

Here are the books that were mentioned:

Sarah Prout – Dear Universe

Dr Wayne Dyer – The power of Intention

Doreen/ Grant Virtue – Angels of Abundance

Mike Dooley – Leveraging the Universe

Tapping the Source

Rhonda Byrne – The Secret

John Randolph Price – The Abundance Book

PAtricia Crane – Ordering from the Cosmic Kitchen

Marie-Claire Carlyle – Money Magnet Mindset – How to BEcome a Money Magnet

Pam Grout – E2

Ursula Source – The Source (Mother Shipton)

Esther & Jerry Hicks – Money and the Law of Attraction – Ask and it is Given

Tosha Silver – Its not your Money

A few of my Favourite Spiritual Books 150520

For anyone interested in building their spiritual library or on their spiritual journey – here are a few of my favourites Join me today for card of the day and a “share your favourite spiritual book”! Join me live at 10am every day –

This friday (22nd May we’ll have a book club on my facebook page around the theme of law of attraction/ manifesting – who’s your favourite author, your favourite book, what are your manifesting successes?

Then on the following friday 290520 at 11am on ZOOM the book club will be looking at one or two of these books. Remember you can read them, listen to them or probably even find them being read for free on youtube!

Book here –

Angel Oracle Card Reading 18th May 2020 with Romella

Angel Oracle Card Reading 18th May 2020 with Romella

Ask your question, choose your theme or simply ask “What do I need to know at this moment?”

Then choose the card that’s calling to you – 1 2 or 3

Join me 10am on my facebook page for daily card and a mixture of space for calm, visualisation and spiritual group

Free Virtual Women’s Circle – spiritual connection 080520

Come and join my free online womens circle
Connection, angel cards, journalling an meditation.

Approx 30mins, maybe longer we’ll see!

Bring a cup of something lovely to drink, deck of oracle cards, your journal and yourself 

Romella Womens circle
Romella’s Prep for Women’s Circle

Want to do more women’s groups – follow my Facebook page or contact me as I re-launch my online Women’s circle.

Spiritual connection, moon phases & working with the moon’s energy, angel cards, journalling, deep spiritual meditations and connections. All in a beautiful sacred sanctuary space <3

Full Moon in Scorpio 7th May 2020

Today 7th may is a Full moon, did you notice it yesterday bright in the sky and unsettled kids?!

It’s a very powerful time and this one is a full moon in scorpio and also known as the Buddha moon as its nearest to Buddha’s birthday. It’s also a truth moon. Join me for 20 mins of Full Moon magic in the YouTube video!

Here also are some links to useful blogs – 

Full moon
Full Moon Live 070520

5 Day Retreat for Calm and Spiritual Connection

I’m running a FREE 5 day retreat right here on this page – a retreat of calm and to raise your vibration. We’ll have an angel card, a meditation, a tip for calm for you to use in the day and I’ll share a spiritual tool to raise your vibration too. I’m sharing a little info here for you now in this video

I’ll add all the days here once downloaded 🙂


Day 1 retreat for calm and raise your vibration

Join me every morning at 10am for 20 ish minute connection to calm and spiritual connection

Today we have a meditation with our inner energy and expansion, an angel card of the day, breathing in pink, and the spiritual tool of journalling.


Day 2 retreat for calm and raise your vibration Join me every morning at 10am for 20 ish minute connection to calm and spiritual connection Angel message of the day – meditation – 2 tips for calm – spiritual tool of the day

Today we look at grounding and its importance, with a little meditation, using an angel card for connection, and my favourite breathing exercise of the 7:11 (or 4:7)

Day 3 retreat for calm and raise your vibration Join me every morning at 10am for 20 ish minute connection to calm and spiritual connection Angel message of the day – meditation – 2 tips for calm – spiritual tool of the day

Today we look at affirmations, bach rescue remedy, breathing in peaceful blue with affirmations too and the spiritual tool of intuition building.

Day 4 of 5 Day Retreat for Calm and Spiritual Connection

Join me for 20 minutes just for you – tools for calm and spiritual connection.

Today we’re looking at the benefit of lying flat for 10 mins, for the spiritual connection – practising using your clairs……

Surviving the Lockdown Part 2 – My Top 13 Thoughts on Support

Daily Tools – My Top 13 Thoughts…

1 Sleep is so important to allow the physical body to rest and repair. Try warm bathes, listening books, reading books, meditation apps, lavender & other calming essential oils in a body lotion or on feet.. Restrict your use of electronic media from phones to tablets to TVs, to allow your natural sleep hormones to build up and help bring sleep to your body.

2 Food and drink. Eat as well as you can, limiting sweet/snacks and drink plenty of water and liquid. I’m not an expert but I know this is important to my own wellbeing.

3 Find time for tools for calm. Such as doing some focused breathing before getting up. I’m lucky that my children don’t come and wake me up in the mornings anymore, so appreciate this might not be possible for those with young kidlets. I often talk about “when the kettle boils” as this is 2 minutes that you can do some breathing or repeat some positive affirmations “I am calm” “I am OK”. If you never fit that 20 minute meditation or yoga practice into your day then find something shorter to do and prioritise.

4 Exercise – not only will this burn up calories from the chocolate being eaten (or is that just me?!). It also releases feel good hormones which will help the body breakdown the stress hormones which otherwise will just sit in the body (remember fight/flight hormones). Plus walking outside  will ground you and comes with benefits of looking for rainbows! There are also lots of online “lives” from Joe Wicks (too much for me) and cosmic yoga for kids on youtube, so try and find something you enjoy and commit to it regularly.

5 Having a higher vibration or energy will help you emotionally, mentally and spiritually. So find and watch a youtube video or FB video that lifts you up, will help. Also doing a daily list of gratitude will lift your vibration. There is so much to be glad or grateful for – from tea bags, toilet roll in your bathroom to chocolate, being with your children, your health, sunshine and blue skies, the internet, wifi, amazon, Netflix, email, video call technology, mobile phones. Just think of a few things each day and feel those positive energies

6 Presence – this is something I struggle with sometimes, I want to do things but the kids need school work or food and I forget to be fully resent. So whenever possible I leave my phone in one place and spend dedicated time with them. It might not be hours or even an hour, but its whatever they need at that moment. I aim to do this with out the phone so I don’t get pings or distracted. Then when I’ve finished I check in. I do similar things when there’s things I need to do for myself – whether work or self-care or meditation. I often set a timer so I know I can be fully present for a certain length of time. Trying to do one thing at a time is more mindful and calming, and we all need that!

7 Limit your news access and even social media. You can block people for 30 days, or simply move to another social media form – Instagram or I’m enjoying Twitter (@Tomallencomedy has a one minute daily video which is hilarious, also Noel Fielding @noelfielding11)

8 Routine, now I don’t enjoy establishing routines, but actually the kids are better when they are in place. So even if simply set around food or exercise – or school work this can really help. It can then change to help kids identify the weekend and school holidays!

9 washing hands – endlessly! My 9 year old daughter had red raw hands and so she now uses a lovely Aveena handcream and it’s made such a difference. She doesn’t seem to then do something that requires handwashing immediately after application – unlike me (why does this happen!).  

10 Find time for play, whether with the kitten (who is fed up of us disturbing her!), children,

11 I love doing art and drawing  – my daughter has even published 2 “Creative Cat” books on amazon. Mindfulness colouring or drawing or finding a 30 day art/ drawing challenge can bring a bit of calm and positivity to a day. PS Carys is even working on an Easter version! I’d recommend separate colouring books to keep your art less “scrawly” if it stresses you! Try and find something creative or mindful to do every day. I love mandalas and pencils

12 Create a “Wish list” jar – pop in notes with all the things you want to do when the lockdown ends. Mine so far are hug my parents, eat fish and chips, go to the beach, rebook our holiday, get a dog!

13 Stay safe – we’ll get through this together. In some timeline we are already through this situation and I doubt our lives will ever be the same again. What changes will you make from these circumstances? I will buy more responsibly, aim to exercise more and be grateful for freedoms of being able to go where I like everyday (even in the rain).  

Available on Amazon – Anthology of Calm