Mental health and too many spinning plates

I hope you are doing OK?

I’m feeling a lot of emotions and having a lot of lessons at the moment. That’s OK if I stop and pay attention. I can’t carry on ” holding everything together”. I’m going to have to drop some plates and maybe allow them to smash on the floor.

That’s a scary thought.

I’m going to make some decisions that fit my current energy and basically damage limitation to my mental health.

My first decision is the food waste. I love doing this and notcing such a difference in our bins and doing my bit for the environment. But frankly our current  kitchen is small and it makes a mess around the sink. So I’m going to stop having the caddy. I might have a bag on the surface instead when peeling veg, or I might stop completely for a while. The caddy affects me emotionally whenever I see it, it really annoys me and at this moment I recognise I have more important areas to focus on. So I’m going to stop. After I’ve sent this email, I shall clear the bag out, pop caddy through the dishwasher and that’s that, until I’m up to it again.

Also I’ve had enough of home learning. So I’ve decided my daughter can start her half term early. I don’t need the pressure of it. The forcing her to do it. Maybe over half term we’ll do a few of the classes (maths for example), maybe we won’t. 

The room divider we’ve got up for the puppy isn’t working – it doesn’t allow me any freedom to pop to the loo and leave her unsupervised. So I’m going to change its position around the crate and mat. 

These three things are small in the grand scheme of things, but they will make a massive difference to my mental and emotional health at the moment.

Where can you let the plates stop spinning, or ask for support? Maybe its small, maybe its a larger change. Listen to your intuition and take the actions to support yourself.

You are worth it
love and calming thoughts


Self Care & Actually Doing It – Program & Book

Self care – how many of you have lost yourself in recent months or even in 2020?

Stopped doing the things that fill you up, feeling drained and exhausted, unmotivated to do anything. I know I have!

Back in August I all but completed my self care program book and haven’t managed to finalise. But now I really need to – for myself and others like me.

Its a 33 day program/ journal/ tips for calm. There’s a beautiful paperback journal/book, plus each day you’ll get a video of a tip and check in, plus a bonus weekly zoom session. I might set up a Facebook group if there’s demand or interest (I’m not into doing the “shoulds”.

Its starting December 28th (monday) and will run for 33 days.

I’m also going to offer an upgrade via level with some “ease method” clearing to shift stress, cords, and more.

So who’s in? Just £33 so only £1 a day. Watch this space or better still drop me an emoji, comment or pm!

Let’s start taking gentle forward steps to improved self care, inner calm and mindset

Join me here for £33 – I’ll arrange for the paperback book/journal to be posted to you – we’re starting 28th December. Each day you’ll get a video to watch, plus a bonus weekly catch up on Zoom. No facebook group to stress – just you, yourself and me supporting you

If you want to upgrade to really boost your energy – use this link for £99 and we’ll book 2 x 40 minute 1-2-1 sessions and use the Ease Method to shift your stress, clear some cords, connect to your higher self. Each protocol usually takes about 3 minutes to process.

The Ease Method is a set of techniques for getting your energy into alignment so you can find greater ease no matter what situation you are facing.

You can apply EASE to anything, because it’s all about helping energy align, and as you know, our energy story and patterns around an issue govern our thoughts, feelings and actions around it.

There are eight protocols you can use to align your  energy, these include:  uncovering deeper blocks and releasing the related stress / blocked energy; aligning with a  new version of self to fully integrate work (including work done in previous years that hasn’t integrated); and clearing the soul of damage from past lives and current lifetime 

£99 VIP Option with 2 x 40 sessions and includes S=33 day self-care program:

Whichever option you choose, I'll be in contact to sort your address for the paperback book and confirm dates for zooom calls or your 1-2-1 sessions.

Tools for clearing

This is a blog with links to tools I use and recommend for clearing your space and setting up your energy.

I find the incense sticks useful for cleansing the house energetically, plus this smells divine!

The palo santo wood is grounding and great to use in and around children

Crystals are useful to shift the energy, to protect an space or fill it with positive energy – or specific energies (eg romance, good sleep, no nightmares, spiritual connection, abundance…)

Are you the glue holding it all together?

Who’s feels like they’ve been glueing the whole their family together?

Soothing anxieties and worries, endless feeding and food decisions, trying to re-establish a new routine – a new normal but terrified of its fragility?

Of answering questions, without knowing the answers

Worries of judging and being judged?

Of a need for selfcare desperately, but what happens if you do? Will the glue melt? Will it all unravel?

These are my questions too, as a mum to an 10 and 12 year old. Desperate for normality. But if I stop and do my self care, it will show weakness and the world will stopnturing.
Last week I started and do you know the world didnt go onwards. The glue continued to.hold, as it was based on unconditional love. And even more important, I was able to be me, to relax and put my needs first (once kidlets in school).

The silence in this house was deafening. I resisted the selfcare for a few days, but the silence called out like a drum to me to look after and replenish my energy. So I did.

Greater balance and calm followed, my intuition sparked once more and I am slowing becoming whole once more.

You are important.

As life in September changes again, who’s ready for my new September Self-Care?

All designed to clear and positively energise your home, office and mind.

To allow you attention to.creating elements of calm in your day

To bring you moments of clarity and calm


– A printed journal and balance and calm prompt book

– a 20 minute Ease Method videocall, to clear stress or motivate or cord citting

– journalling ecourse

– access to v-book home space clearing workshop

– plus access to support group

Or upgrade to include full Ease Method sessions or additional Ease Method sessions

£33 for selfcare booster package

£55 for selfcare booster package and 1 x 30 min Ease Method session

£77 for selfcare booster package and 2 x 30 min Ease Method session

£99 for selfcare booster package and 3 x 30 min Ease Method session

Book and make your payment here – simply choose the level you wish –

Are you the Glue that holds everyone together? Time for some self-care

Spiritual Connection – what does your body want you to know?

In this meditation we are looking at connecting to your body and how its feeling and what messages it holds.

Our body holds so much information, we just need to learn to how to listen to it. To pay attention to the feelings, what messages come through, and then take action. You may get called to look at your diet, water, exercise, emotional support, holistic health, journalling, meditation, mindfulness, spiritual connection.

I like to journal after this body connection around my physical, mental, emotional and spiritual needs. Then choose a couple of things that I can actually take action.

How’s the Energy in your house? Time for some space clearing tools?

How is your house feeling at the moment, after being stuck in the same place altogether? Have you been having more arguments? Feeling odd when walking into a room or sitting in a seat?

After being in lockdown for 4 months I know my house is feeling energetically at a low. A few too many negative conversations around home learning has meant we want to spend less time at the dining table! A few too many door slams.

Join me on Saturday 10-1130am for an interactive workshop on space clearing.

Learn about how pieces of furniture or possessions can be radiating negative vibrations, how power and water cables could be affecting your sleep and how those negative thoughtforms from arguments are pallable and affecting your energy!

But most importantly find out how to clear and reduce their impact on your energy and your families!

This interactive workshop is £11 and you will leave with a plan of your house and an understanding of the negative energies affecting it AND Most importantly tools to clear them and regain a calm and positive house!
We’ll be meeting via zoom and you’ll have ongoing support through my “Romella Support” group.

So come and get your house sparkling clean on a 5D level! Message or comment for more information